Do not shed tears when I have gone
but smile instead because I have lived.
Do not shut your eyes and pray to God that I’ll come back
but open your eyes and see all that I have left behind.
I know your heart will be empty because you cannot see me
but still I want you to be full of the love we shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live only for yesterday
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of what happened
between us yesterday.
You can remember me and grieve that I have gone
or you can cherish my memory and let it live on.
You can cry and lose yourself become distraught
and turn your back on the world
or you can do what I want -
smile, wipe away the tears,
learn to love again and go on.

*I can't go on...
I must go on...
I'll go on.

David Harkins

*Line taken from Samuel Beckett's novel 'The Unnameable.'
I'd like the memory of me
to be a happy one,
I'd like to leave an afterglow
of smiles when day is gone.
I'd like to leave an echo
whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times, and laughing times,
and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve
to dry before the sun,
Of happy memories that I leave
when my life is done.
"If Tears Could Build A Stairway"
If tears could build a stairway
and memories were a lane
We would walk right up to heaven
And bring you back again.
No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why
Our hearts still ache in sadness
and secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know
But now we know you want us
To mourn for you no more
To remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store
Since you'll never be forgotten
We pledge to you today
A cherished place within our heart
Is where you'll always stay
Art work by Danny Hahlbohm
The background photo used on this page (photo above) was taken in Pelham Bay Park by Kenny's sister Buffy...
Kenny & Buffy spent alot of time hangin' out together in this park (with friends).
Thank You Buffy For This and Many Other Beautiful Photo's You Have Taken.
The last birthday we shared with Kenny was Jan 23rd 1999,his 17th...
Well here it is 10 years later, 10 birthdays without Kenny.
We miss him and love him so much...
Dear Kenny Blessed Birthday In Heaven ,
We Hope everyone up there shares this 27th birthday with you!
You are forever in our thoughts, prayers and heart...
Your family Loves & Misses You 4ever & So does your friends
I Love You Kenny!
Buffy misses you so much and she loves you very much too!
I'm sure you met your nephew Logan up there b4 he came to us...
We tell him about you all the time, He has known who you are
(by your pictures) since he was only 6 months old
So I bet he misses you to:)
Have One For Us Ken, Happy Birthday!
Love Always To You Ken,
Mommy, Buffy,Your Family & Friends...
"It's Dark in Here "
by Shel Silverstein
"I am writing these poems
From inside a lion,
And it's rather dark in here.
So please excuse the handwriting
Which may not be too clear.
But this afternoon by the lion's cage
I'm afraid I got too near.
And I'm writing these lines
From inside a lion,
And it's rather dark in here."
This poem reflecs how I feel This YEAR!!!
Cathy^Kenny^ & Buffy's Mom
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Thank You (((((Susie))))) Jason's Mom For The Opening Birthday Tag you sent for Kenny...
Please Stop By Susie's Beautiful Memorial To her beloved son Jason@
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Mom, Sister & Family
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Beatriz  "Fal" Thank You!
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Who can say for certain
Maybe you're still here
I feel you all around me
Your memories so clear

Deep in the stillness
I can hear you speak
You're still an inspiration
Can it be
That you are mine
Forever love
And you are watching over me from up above

Fly me up to where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile to know you're there
A breath away' s not far
To where you are

Are you gently sleeping
Here inside my dream
And isn't faith believing
All power can't be seen

As my heart holds you
Just one beat away
I cherish all you gave me everyday
'Cause you are mine
Forever love
Watching me from up above

And I believe
That angels breathe
And that love will live on and never leave

Fly me up
To where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile
To know you're there
A breath away' s not far
To where you are

I know you're there
A breath away' s not far
To where you are
Thank You Lynn ^Ken's^ Mom
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"God Took Him Home,
It Was His Will...
But In My Heart I Love Him Still...
His Memory Is As Dear Today,
As In The Hour He Passed Away...
Forgive Me Lord,
But I'll Always Weep,
For The Son I Love,
But Could Not Keep"

"The depth of my grief is a constant with
the breadth of my love,
I would never sacrifice one
to avoid the pain of the other."
To Love Another Person
Is To See The Face Of God!
Thank You Susie ^Jason's^ Mom
Happy Birthday Kenny