Do not shed tears when I have gone 
but smile instead because I have lived. 
Do not shut your eyes and pray to God that I’ll come back 
but open your eyes and see all that I have left behind. 
I know your heart will be empty because you cannot see me 
but still I want you to be full of the love we shared. 
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live only for yesterday 
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of what happened 
between us yesterday. 
You can remember me and grieve that I have gone 
or you can cherish my memory and let it live on. 
You can cry and lose yourself become distraught 
and turn your back on the world 
or you can do what I want - 
smile, wipe away the tears, 
learn to love again and go on.
*I can't go on... 
I must go on... 
I'll go on.
David Harkins 
*Line taken from Samuel Beckett's novel 'The Unnameable.' 

I'd like the memory of me 
to be a happy one, 
I'd like to leave an afterglow 
of smiles when day is gone.
I'd like to leave an echo 
whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times, and laughing times, 
and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve 
to dry before the sun,
Of happy memories that I leave 
when my life is done.
"If Tears Could Build A Stairway" 
If tears could build a stairway 
and memories were a lane 
We would walk right up to heaven 
And bring you back again. 
No farewell words were spoken 
No time to say goodbye 
You were gone before we knew it 
And only God knows why 
Our hearts still ache in sadness 
and secret tears still flow 
What it meant to lose you 
No one will ever know 
But now we know you want us 
To mourn for you no more 
To remember all the happy times 
Life still has much in store 
Since you'll never be forgotten 
We pledge to you today 
A cherished place within our heart 
Is where you'll always stay 
The background photo used on this page (photo above) was taken in Pelham Bay Park by Kenny's sister Buffy...
Kenny & Buffy spent alot of time hangin' out together in this park (with friends).
Thank You Buffy For This and Many Other Beautiful Photo's You Have Taken.
The last birthday we shared with Kenny was Jan 23rd 1999,his 17th...
Well here it is 10 years later, 10 birthdays without Kenny.
We miss him and love him so much...
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Dear Kenny Blessed Birthday In Heaven , 
We Hope everyone up there shares this 27th birthday with you!
You are forever in our thoughts, prayers and heart...
Your family Loves & Misses You 4ever & So does your friends
I Love You Kenny! 
Buffy misses you so much and she loves you very much too!
I'm sure you met your nephew Logan up there b4 he came to us... 
We tell him about you all the time, He has known who you are 
 (by your pictures) since he was only 6 months old
So I bet he misses you to:)
Have One For Us Ken, Happy Birthday!
Love Always To You Ken,
Mommy, Buffy,Your Family & Friends...
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
"It's Dark in Here "
by Shel Silverstein
"I am writing these poems
From inside a lion,
And it's rather dark in here.
So please excuse the handwriting
Which may not be too clear.
But this afternoon by the lion's cage
I'm afraid I got too near.
And I'm writing these lines
From inside a lion,
And it's rather dark in here." 
This poem reflecs how I feel This YEAR!!!
Cathy^Kenny^ & Buffy's Mom
The song "To Where You Are" is sung by Josh Grobin...Please Buy His CD...Thank You...
Thank You (((((Susie))))) Jason's Mom For The Opening Birthday Tag you sent for Kenny...
Please Stop By Susie's Beautiful Memorial To her beloved son Jason@http://www.jasoncdunn.com/ 
This page was created for Kenny's 
Mom, Sister & Family
by Andrew McMillan @ (copy N paste)
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Thank You for visiting ...
Please sign Kenny's guestbook
Who can say for certain 
Maybe you're still here 
I feel you all around me 
Your memories so clear 
Deep in the stillness 
I can hear you speak 
You're still an inspiration 
Can it be 
That you are mine 
Forever love 
And you are watching over me from up above 
Fly me up to where you are 
Beyond the distant star 
I wish upon tonight 
To see you smile 
If only for awhile to know you're there 
A breath away' s not far 
To where you are 
Are you gently sleeping 
Here inside my dream 
And isn't faith believing 
All power can't be seen 
As my heart holds you 
Just one beat away 
I cherish all you gave me everyday 
'Cause you are mine 
Forever love 
Watching me from up above 
And I believe 
That angels breathe 
And that love will live on and never leave 
Fly me up 
To where you are 
Beyond the distant star 
I wish upon tonight 
To see you smile 
If only for awhile 
To know you're there 
A breath away' s not far 
To where you are 
I know you're there 
A breath away' s not far 
To where you are 



















Thank You Lynn ^Ken's^ Mom 
click on the picture to go to Lynn's Son Ken's page
"God Took Him Home,
It Was His Will...
But In My Heart I Love Him Still...
His Memory Is As Dear Today,
As In The Hour He Passed Away...
Forgive Me Lord,
But I'll Always Weep,
For The Son I Love,
But Could Not Keep"
"The depth of my grief is a constant with
 the breadth of my love, 
I would never sacrifice one 
to avoid the pain of the other."
To Love Another Person
Is To See The Face Of God!